Don’t be the victim

Moments - Published 16 Feb 2020

While growing up Steve and I always used to quote this mantra “Don’t be the victim”. I love it. So short. So direct. When I sometimes share it with other people in a pickle, I get the death stare 9/10 times. Ha! It’s so difficult to accept.

So there I was today feeling sorry for myself getting skunked on a surf mission, when all I gave myself was a 3hr window out a full week of surf in Cape Town.

What a little bitch.

Spent 10yrs designing my life online so I don’t have to be a Sunday morning “weekend warrior” surfer. Time to be better.

Don’t be the victim.

Surfing Hollow Trees in Mentawai

Surfing HT's in Mentawai

Surfing HT’s in Mentawai



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